Lenine Manariyo, uzwi cyane mu gihugu cy’Uburundi nk’umunyamakuru no kuba umuhanga mu gutanga inama z’urukundo, yamenyekanye cyane kubera uburyo yifashisha imyitwarire, ikinyabupfura, n’ubushishozi mu kubwira abakunzi be uko bagomba kwitwara mu rukundo rwabo. Yagize uruhare mu gutanga inama zitandukanye ku mibanire y’abashakanye ndetse no kumvikanisha uburyo bwo guharanira ubusugire bw’urukundo.
Icyakora, inkuru y’umubano we n’umugore we igaragara nk’ihuriro ry’ibibazo bitandukanye byarimo gusenya umuryango wabo. Mu minsi yashize, amakuru yamenyekanye ko Lenine yatandukanye n’umugore we nyuma y’imyaka myinshi bashakanye. Nyuma yo gusuzuma impamvu zitandukanye, byagaragaye ko hakomeje kubaho kutumvikana mu buryo bwo gucunga umuryango no kubana mu rukundo.
Imwe mu mpamvu zitavugwa cyane ariko zitera inkubiri ni uko uyu munyamakuru n’umugore we batabashije gukomeza kubana mu buryo bushimishije bitewe n’imibereho yabo itandukanye mu rugo. Lenine, akaba akenshi yarafashaga abandi gushyira imbere umutekano w’urukundo, ariko mu muryango we, hari ibibazo bitari bike byagiye bigaragara.
Birashoboka ko ari uburyo bwo kubona kubana mu buryo bwiza bwasaga n’igitutu ku buryo batashoboye kuramba muri ayo makimbirane. Kimwe mu bibazo byagaragaye ni uko Lenine yagiye akora urugendo rw’imishinga ya media ndetse n’ibindi bikorwa bigamije gufasha abandi, ariko umugore we akaba yarafashe umwanya muto ku mugoroba ndetse no ku mibanire yabo mu buryo bw’iminsi yose.
Hari amakuru avuga ko Lenine afite imitekerereze ya kera cyane ko byashoboraga gutuma habaho kwivumbura hagati yabo. Ibyo ni ibihe byo kubahiriza amahame ajyanye no kubaka urugo, ariko ntibikozwe neza. Iyo hatabayeho ukwihangana no kumvikana hagati yabo, abantu bashobora gufata icyemezo cyo gutandukana kugira ngo bagire ubuzima bushya.
Nubwo uyu munyamakuru atatangaje impamvu nyamukuru ituma batandukana, abakunzi be n’ababikurikirana bafashe umwanya wo gutanga ibitekerezo byabo ku byabaye. Muri rusange, ibibazo by’imibanire nk’ibi bigaragaza ko gukundana bisaba gukora cyane kandi ugashaka guhuza imyumvire.
Inama ikomeye yatanzwe ni uko umuntu agomba kwitonda mu guhitamo umufasha, kandi ko gukundana bisaba guhuza imyitwarire n’imyemerere hagati y’abashakanye. Ni ibintu byose bisaba kumvikana no kubaka uburyo bwo gushyira hamwe, ariko ni ngombwa kumenya gucunga ibyo ushaka mu mibanire.
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