Mu buzima bwa buri munsi, abantu benshi bibaza niba koko urukundo barimo ruzabageza kure cyangwa ari urukundo ruzarangirira aho. Hari ibintu bishobora kukwereka neza ko umubano wanyu ufite ejo hazaza kandi ko ushobora kugera ku rwego rwo kubaka urugo.
Dore ibintu 7 bikwereka ko uri mu rukundo rufite ejo hazaza:
1. Mubwizanya ukuri mu kantu kose
Urukundo rugira imbaraga iyo rwubakiye ku kuri. Iyo mwese mutabeshyana, mukabwizanya ukuri nubwo ari k’uduto, bigaragaza ko mufitanye icyizere gikomeye.
2. Mwumva mufitanye umutekano n’ituze
Iyo uri kumwe n’uwo ukunda ukaba wumva uri mu mutuzo, nta mpamvu yo kwihisha cyangwa kugira ubwoba, ni ikimenyetso ko urukundo rwanyu rufite igisobanuro gikomeye.
3. Mugira intego z’ahazaza muhuza
Iyo mwese mufite icyerekezo cy’aho mushaka kugera (nk’akazi, ubuzima, kubaka urugo), bigaragaza ko mushobora gutera imbere hamwe.
4. Mubashije gukemura amakimbirane mu mahoro
Amakimbirane mu rukundo ni ibisanzwe. Ariko iyo mushobora kuyakemura mutagombereye kurwana cyangwa guhangana bikabije, ni ikimenyetso cy’ubukure mu rukundo.
5. Mwubahana kandi mugaha agaciro buri wese
Uko mwubahana, uko mwumva ibitekerezo by’undi, n’uko mutitaho mu bihe bikomeye, byose bigaragaza ko mufitanye urukundo rurambye.
6. Mufashanya mu buzima bwa buri munsi
Iyo uwo mukundana aba hafi yawe mu byishimo no mu bihe bigoye, agafasha mu bikorwa bya buri munsi cyangwa mu byemezo bikomeye, bigaragaza ko mufatanya nk’itsinda.
7. Mukunda gusangira ibyishimo n’ibibabazo
Urukundo rugira imbaraga iyo mutabana mu byiza gusa, ahubwo mukabana no mu bihe bitoroshye, mukarushaho gukomera.
Urukundo rufite ejo hazaza rugaragazwa n’icyizere, kubwizanya ukuri, kubahana no gufatanya mu buzima bwa buri munsi. Iyo ibi bintu birindwi biboneka mu rukundo rwanyu, nta kabuza mufite amahirwe menshi yo kugira ahazaza heza hamwe.
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